Why People Misbehave Insights Podcast v135

Introduction

On the 20th of September 2025, Dennis Onuigbo joined fellow hosts on DosimpleTV to explore a timeless question: Why do people misbehave? Drawing from 1 Peter 3:4, he examined how inner peace—or the lack of it—shapes human behavior. The conversation revealed deep spiritual truths about disease, unforgiveness, pride, and the role of a quiet spirit in God’s sight.

The Foundation: Beauty from Within

The day’s scripture, 1 Peter 3:4, reminds us that true beauty is not outward but inward:

“Instead, your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of the greatest value in God’s sight.”

Dennis emphasized that in today’s world, it is increasingly rare to see people with a meek and quiet spirit. Instead, anger, pride, and unrest have become common, leading many to misbehave.

Revelation: When Pride and Unforgiveness Take Root

Dennis shared a striking revelation involving two apostles:

• The Mentor – a once-powerful servant of God who, over time, fell into pride and criticism of others, weakening his ministry.


• The Mentee – though falsely accused, he chose forgiveness and restored his mentor through prayer.

The lesson: Pride and unforgiveness can corrupt the spirit, but forgiveness restores both the offended and the offender.

Understanding Disease: The Absence of Ease

Dennis broke down the word disease as “dis-ease”—the absence of peace.

• Unforgiveness and anger disturb the soul.


• A troubled soul opens doors for spiritual affliction.


• Misbehavior is often the outward expression of an inner lack of peace.

The Case of Ngozi: A Lesson in Spiritual Bondage

Dennis recounted the vision of a woman named Ngozi who carried years of pain and betrayal. Her unforgiveness attracted destructive spirits that left her diseased physically, spiritually and emotionally. Deliverance came only when the evil spirits were commanded out in Jesus’ name, restoring her peace and quietness of spirit.

Why People Misbehave

Summarizing his insights, Dennis explained:

1. The Soul is Empty by Nature – Whatever we feed it determines our behavior.


2. Unforgiveness Creates Disease – Anger and bitterness corrupt the spirit.


3. Spiritual Influence Shapes Conduct – Misbehavior often stems from deeper bondage.


4. Peace Protects the Spirit – A meek and quiet spirit keeps disease and misbehavior away.

Conclusion

Dennis Onuigbo concluded that misbehavior is not random—it’s spiritual. When peace is absent, when pride blinds, and when unforgiveness festers, people act destructively. But through God’s Word as contained in the Bible and forgiveness, healing is possible.

“If you remain calm, if you remain peaceful, you will not be diseased. True beauty lies in the meek and quiet spirit that God values most.”